Hi, J. Matthew Peabody,

Whew — what you’re going through is not easy, and I get it. I agree with your therapist, for whatever that’s worth: you gotta figure out what’s right for you, and live by that, although doing so means you’ll probably disappoint others. That’s easier said than done, of course, but you CAN do it! (And if you want help, reach out to me.)

Sending my support and best wishes.

Marie